How to Get the Perfect Mate
My ex-wife is a great lady. I learned a lot with her about how not to do relationship. I also learned a lot of good stuff too.
After my split with her, I decided to go within (meditation) and look at myself, and how I had played a part in our breakup. Then I read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, by John Gray, and learned all the ways that we (men and women) are different. I also had to learn how to be ok with me - and love me - unconditionally. I didn't know who I was - only who I was with her. We had been together since we were 18 years old.
If you are looking for a relationship, I would suggest that for your first step, you take the time to be clear with yourself exactly what you are looking for in your perfect mate. What do you want? What qualities would he or she have? How would he/she look, smell, feel in your arms? How would he/she treat you? How would he/she treat your children? Be very specific. Act as if your next mate is a pizza and you can put whatever toppings you want on it - not considering anyone else, or what they would want on the pizza. Just what you would want to make this the yummiest pizza you ever ate.
Sit for a few minutes and just imagine the feeling of having your perfect mate. Breathe in the feeling of being loved as much as you give love. Sit with this feeling for a bit, then open your eyes and make a list. Be specific.
There you have it. Step One. Know that you deserve the very best...and nothing short of the very best. You are a wonderful way that love is expressing itself, and you can have everything that you ever wanted. You deserve it. You are a great person! You have a lot to offer someone, but they need to be worthy of your love.
Enjoy this process. It's great to dream it all up!
Peace and Many Blessings,
Successful Communications, Inc.
Los Angeles, California 310-823-2661
Copyright 2007-2008 Successful Communications, Inc.
All Rights Reserved.