Through no fault
of your own, you may be one of the many good people who
have grown into adult bodies, while still stuck in the emotions of
childhood. Heres what happened
When you were a
child, you had feelings and needs.
Depending on your upbringing, you may have had parents who
validated those feelings and met those needs, or maybe not.
Either way, once you grew into an adult, it was no longer
their job to take care of you, so whether they were there for you
or not, you then had a responsibility to take care of
The problem is
that you may not have fully realized that responsibility, and you
may have gotten stuck there.
You may have blamed your parenting or lack of
parenting or you may have blamed yourself, but that blaming
only kept you stuck. As
you began to develop relationships with other people in your life,
you may have found yourself expecting them to validate your
feelings and fulfill your needs.
You may have continued to seek approval and validation
from your parents, other family members, authority figures, and
maybe even your own children, while at the same time resenting
the very people you were seeking approval from because you still
didnt feel like you were good enough.
If this scenario
feels familiar to you, then the self-parenting process
could be exactly what you need to finally feel validated and
fulfilled in all of your relationships, and to finally be in control
of your own life.
self-parenting, you will have the opportunity to be both parent
and child. You will learn specific skills and techniques, and apply them
in a structured, disciplined process.
And because self-parenting is done through coaching, you
will have the support of a trained professional who has been
through the process, and knows how to support and guide you
through it safely and gently.
When you commit to this process and do all the exercises as
they are assigned, the results can be quite miraculous.
can be done individually, or in a group.